Copy-Mindedness & Singleness

Copy-Mindedness & Singleness
Right From the beginning of this very good old world there has been this major phenomenon that's always has been and is going to be always evident.If there is a world renowned idea or the way of life that is to be supposed to be so, it has to be so.

If there is this unshaken striving to the many good-gold things in the world,it's to be very much be appreciated. But, God bless the world.. it is n't so. People say, It's a great cultural exchange that is taking place and everyone will benefit from it. West is learning things from the east and the east is learning( or say "copying") from the west. People in the west are very much broad-minded and are ready to learn the good-gold things of the world and they come to countries like India and countries where people don't respect their own cultures.

Just take the example of a simple language usage at home. People in the west don't know any other language other than english, and they have no choice other than using english. In the East, yes we are entering the era of globalization and the world has become a small global village, but it isn't sinful to use your own mother-tongue atleast at your house. Why are people so narrow minded ?? They think using English at home is kind of a status symbol and a matter of pride while the usage of one's own mother-tongue is shameful even-though several millions of humans are ready to learn that particular mother-tongue.

OK,Hocus!I can understand you may argue saying that English is a global language and we are practicing it and we have to use it to communicate. I appreciate that thought a million a time, but why do you have to forfeit your own tried and tested ,supreme,problem-proof culture.

I'm a citizen of my country. I'm proud of being one. I can't fight for my country like those brilliant and valiant blessed souls who are ready to fight till their last drops of blood evaporate.But, i can relish,enjoy and be proud of my culture,my forefathers. By saying this, i'm not telling you to be rigid. There are so many good things in your own country that you have to be proud of and continue practicing it and there are so many good things that you can learn from the other countries.

Let's come to an another more significant issue of the many umpteen number of adolescents like me myself. Single or committed?? To be single in your 20's or 30's (sometimes 40's )is not advisable. But,to get committed or having a boyfriend/girlfriend at a very young teenage period of time is considered to be a healthy and is as essential as a baby is to have a diaper or for a student to have a undergraduate degree.

Is there any necessity to have a girlfriend or to be in a relationship?? Is it a prestige symbol?? Or is it going to be of great use to the society?? Why do people die to love someone or to atleast assume that they are in love with someone just to make sure that they are not the odd ones left out in the society??Hocus, I ardently ask you to show this much love towards your parents, it will pay you back many tenfolds of love back to you. Love is Holy. There is always time for it,One shouldn't misinterpret the several feelings like a fling,a crush, or liking or an attraction. Love is heavenly and God-like and will be there in one's life for sure. If there is something be said that love is not advisable in one's culture , you ought to follow it, because it has been tried and tested and there is no point in just copying other's cultures and applying it in your life. To be single and bachelor is fun, enjoy it and relish... You will live longer and who knows some people might start following you because people are more prone to following than being followed. I made up this sentence and i guess this can just underline the importance of originality and stuffs about you.

When People smirk or laugh at you for whatever u are doing which u love,Pls tell yourself this,"In this world, seldom people appreciate you and the best probable person to appreciate u and motivate is u yourself"...Sell Yourself Better, the world will one day turn around and start following u!!

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